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Some people think that big families live together, while others think that nuclear family should live away from the extended family. What type of family arrangement do you prefer?

To have an extended family always pleasurable and joyful. But when it comes to the issue of dwelling together, it should decisively set apart because living together entails further features and may lead to turnoil. Accordingly, I pore on that the nuclear family should live far away from the relations. I have two level-headed occasions and I will expound them elaborately.

Initially, I have to utter that living with the extended family diametrically disrupts the relationship between the nuclear family members. For instance, a child has a peerless relationship with his parents. Sometimes, there may be some affairs that the child should directly explicate the issue to their parents and tthe nuclear family have to make a plausible decision. When the nuclear family share the same milieu with the extended family, this leads to accessive intervention of the family members aside from the nuclear family. For the same token, a polyphonic ambit is brought forth by extended family members. Therefore, the unique relationship between the kid and his parents is ruined and the possibility of making improper resolutions dramatically increase.

In the second place, living with the extended family may show the problems under false colors. Namely, sometimes there may be some excusible issues between nuclear family members, but hence the nuclear family does not have enough space to solve their problems, they become bare for the interference of extended family members. As a result, a tolerable issue may transform to an issue that is inadmissible. The opposite way round, nuclear family members may be obliged to assent an inacceptable manner because of the pressure coming from the extended family members. This evantually causes the nuclear family members paper over the cracks.

In conclusion, socially and mentally well being of a nuclear family is possible with the right living conditions. The most feasible provision for this is to choose to live far from the extended family. Owing to the probable degeneration of relationships between nuclear family members and the possibility of misinterpreting the issues, it is way better to dwell apart from the extended family.